To all woman: It’s time to be a Badass

Let me ask you something and if the answer is yes, raise your hand; Did you ever hold yourself back, because you were afraid of what others would think of you?

I am pretty sure, that I'm not the only one, who's holding her hands up right?

It's important we all realize, the things we are doing and then change them. The journey of grow and learning is a long process, but I promise you, that when you start seeing the confident changes within yourself, you'll be a lot happier. I guarantee you.

Let me begin with telling you about the beauty of doing what you want, when you want. When I finally stopped caring about others opinion of me, I started to do what I truly wanted to do. And with this I mean literally everything. I chose to not rush into education and went out traveling instead. I haven’t studied for over 4 years now. I still lived at home until 3 months ago. I wanted to travel and live abroad instead. Obviously that didn't please some people and they might think less of me. I just couldn't care less. Because I was living for myself. I had the time of my life and I would never have wanted, to miss out on everything I've experienced. I would never have wanted, to miss out on the person I have become.

I am completely crazy sometimes. Well, maybe not sometimes; all the time! I have the most characteristic laugh and I never fail to make a “perfect” entrance. I’m clumsy as hell, I’m brutally honest and I always have stories to tell. I show my true colors out to the world and that might seem intimidating to most people. But who’s going to stop me?

Another thing I’ve learned, is to prioritize my time and saying no to things. Simply because I don’t want to do them; and no to people, because I simply just don’t want to spend time with them. I am the one, who’s going to live with my decisions more than anyone else, so I’m not going to allow myself to be unhappy. I learned to say no. I learned to stand up for myself. It’s okay, to let people know, that it’s not okay to treat you badly or with anything other than respect.

We often have a tendency, to be overwhelmed by others opinion of us, that we forget what’s truly best for us. It’s a truly beautiful thing, when you know your self-worth. Magical things are going to happen to you in that moment. Don’t take your values or your passions for granted. Find it, embrace it and then go and pursue the shit out of it.

Women: You have to take control over your love life.

You might be interested in someone, who isn’t exactly your ”standard” or someone, who your friends or family won’t approve of. So I have to say one thing: Who the hell cares? It’s not their life and if you don’t put yourself first, who will? Yes, that’s correct. Nobody.

So please enjoy all the opportunities and go and live your life. Have fun! You should never regret anything, that once made you happy.

After you read this post, will you promise me one thing? Try to at least?

Start cheering on other women!

I mean… We are sadly raised in a world, that somehow makes us feel, that other women are a competition. And that is just… NONSENSE. The only person you should be competing against, is the person you were yesterday. I would like you to realize, that you can work with and not against other woman. It will create much more peace within you and your life will get much more enjoyable. Just think about how much more your friendships will shine?

If you do, have a tendency to feel jealous often, then make an ultimately choice, to pick out 3 of your best attributes. I know, you probably have heard that a million times before, but it will make you feel much more beautiful. You have something, that no other woman have. FIND IT and embrace it!

If you feel jealous in your relationship; I am going to tell you a cliché. He is with you for a reason! There’s no other girl more unique than you. Why should he ever want to be with anybody else? Right! Focus on all the good things you have and all the reasons, why he chooses you every single day.

Last thing I want to say is: Find the strength in your independence. I’m not going to lie: I love, when I have the opportunities to be spoiled and have things handed to me. I’m sure you’d love it too. But the older we get and the more we work, the more we appreciate our independence. We have worked damn hard for it! In your independence you find time for your goals and you strive to pursue them. You don’t feel the need to put

a dull over your crown because it might outshine others.

You, my girl, are an independent bad-ass woman!